M’sian Woman Tells Mommy’s Boys to be Independent & Leave Comfort Zone or “stay away from girls”

Everyone has something that they’re fearful of prior to, or during a relationship. For the ladies, it’s probably a nightmare fuel to date a mommy’s boy who needs to run through every decision with his mother. 

Of course, this shows massive respect to the Queen who raised you but there will be a time in life when you’re bound to make decisions for yourself. In a post by Xuan Play, a Malaysian woman recently expressed her annoyance towards mommy’s boys, who tend to stay in their comfort zones and have the same dialogue:

“No choice, she’s my mother.”

To her, this merely shows how they are willing to sacrifice others so that the mommy’s boys can stay in their comfort zones and be less independent.

The mothers are part of the problem too!

In the meantime, the woman also believes that the mothers are worsening the situation by having a major attachment to their grown-up sons.

“Jealousy, over-controlling, guilt trip, and more! You’re part of the problem too by doing so to your grown-up son, and you’re making it worse by compromising their lives!”

In her post, the woman reminds all mommy’s boys out there to stay away from girls if they are not willing to change. She also has a reminder to all mothers who tend to not let their sons be exposed to the outside world:

“Stop being the devil by being overly-attached to your son!”

As for the other ladies, the woman reminded them to RUN if they happened to meet and date a mommy’s boy.

“Don’t ever tell yourself you can change them. The only thing you can do is safe yourself!”

Dear ladies, have you ever met or dated a mommy’s boy? What was it like and could you accept it, or did you see it as a walking red flag?

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