Upon finding out that your ex has a new partner, what would you do?
Most people would wish their ex and their new partner well, while others (who maybe went through a bad break-up with their ex) might badmouth and be bitter about the whole situation. One M’sian woman though, upon finding out that her ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend, decided to do everything in her power to get him back.
Taking to the XUAN Play Facebook page, she anonymously confessed all the heinous things she did to try and win back her ex-boyfriend, despite him telling her that he wanted nothing to do with her.
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She wrote, “I was with my ex for about 2 years and we broke up peacefully. After we broke up, I would often go to his house because I had a good relationship with his mother. When I found out that he had a new girlfriend, I tried to win him back and often stayed at his house till late, hoping to spend the night.”
“I also had a birthday celebration for him and deliberately told his mother some things to make his current girlfriend unhappy.”
She then proudly listed all the things she did in an attempt to ruin her ex-boyfriend’s new relationship.
Picking up on what she was doing, her ex-boyfriend even told her off!
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“I also often sent him selfies and talked to him about private topics. Occasionally, I left some personal items in his room. Despite all that I did, he still treated me coldly and sometimes warned me that I shouldn’t do this. His current girlfriend often quarrelled with him because of this. After all, I did it on purpose,”
“Until one day, his current girlfriend contacted me and wanted to talk to me face-to-face. I pretended to apologise but I didn’t want to meet up with her because I didn’t want to see that woman. I don’t think that I am in the wrong. After all, shouldn’t I try to keep what was mine first?”
What makes this all so much worse is that while she was doing all of this, she, too, had a new partner!
“Although I also had a boyfriend at that time, I just felt uneasy. I think I look good and come from a good family, so I shouldn’t lose to his current girlfriend. Of course, my current boyfriend doesn’t know what I’m doing, because I look like a good girl on the surface, so no one suspects anything,”
“I still remember how I deliberately sent (my ex-boyfriend) a message saying, ‘After all, your girlfriend doesn’t like all of this. Remember to delete our chat history‘, hoping that his girlfriend would see it. It is women that understand women the best, and what it takes to anger another woman,” she said.
While we’re happy that the ex-boyfriend sees through her attempts, we genuinely hope that he realises that he needs to cut contact with her and do right by his current girlfriend.
What do you think of the woman’s entitlement towards her ex-boyfriend? Do feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section.
