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Everyone has different needs and desires in their lives that take them down different paths.

Just because someone has a different, less prosperous lifestyle than you do, doesn’t mean you should make fun of them.

A Malaysian recently took to the SecretsMY Twitter page to share their question on whether they should remain friends with their university mates after they decided to make fun of their career choice that helps them support their family.

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They wrote, “(I’m) typing this while holding back my tears in the back of a van. Hi, I’m a Degree holder, and I even made the Dean’s list multiple times, but life led me to become a street painter as I support my family and my young niece.”

“Being a street painter allows me to take on multiple freelance jobs, hence more money. I’m happy working like this, in fact, I’m happier because I can support my family. Nothing makes me happier than that.”

 

Though, when their university mates found out about their decision to become a street painter, the understanding they had while studying together had turned into mockery.

They also asked whether it is worth it to maintain such friendships.

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“However, during a recent reunion with my university friend, they started making jokes about my current path and how I make my living in the street. They all laughed despite knowing the difficulties I faced in the past. It hurts because they’re aware of my struggles and their ‘jokes’ feel like a betrayal of the understanding we once had.”

“I feel insulted, even when I’m earning an honest living. I acknowledge that being a street painter isn’t the ideal path I initially envisioned, but it’s the only way I’ve found to support my family and my niece. What should I do now? Walk away or stay in the friendship?” they asked.

 

Friends should be the ones to uplift you when times are tough and when you’re doing your best. People who make fun of your struggles are not friends at all.

What advice would you give them? Do feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section.

 

Also read: M’sian Husband Seeks Advice on What to Do With His Physically & Mentally Abusive Wife of 5 Years

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