To many men, hair is like the King’s crown. We wouldn’t want to leave it untidy, especially when we’re out on dates, and looking neat boosts our confidence.
A 30-year-old Malaysian man, who is still single admitted his desire to jump into the dating world, and the desire gets stronger every time he sees his peers or the people around him cling around their respective partners. However, there is 1 and only barrier that causes him to think twice before saying hello to the ladies.
“I’m a little bald,” he confessed in an anonymous post by Xuan Play.
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He also said that he has been single for a very long time and the PDA (public display affection) around increases his need to feel some romance in the air with a partner.
“My baldness takes away my self-confidence and every time I see the person I like, I tried to summon my confidence but I just cannot,” he said.
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With multiple treatments for baldness available out there, one might wonder why didn’t he seek help from the professionals to cover the flaw on his head. The man did, but it’s not just about the high maintenance costs.
“The treatments are so expensive. I did try for a few times but they didn’t work on me.”
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After numerous failed attempts to hide his baldness, the man decided to stop trying but couldn’t help but wonder – as long as his baldness doesn’t cease to exist, does that mean he stand no chance with the ladies?
“Your baldness doesn’t matter, your money does”
Social media users then told him to go ahead with his desires and convinced him that his minor baldness is not a problem, but something else would be.
“You can still look good even if you’re completely bald. Many bald celebrities look good, and it’s all about your inner beauty. If you look good but you don’t behave well, it’s pointless.”
“I was bald, but my wife still wanted me.”
“Your crush will go to someone else by the time you cure your baldness. Be straightforward and take action, take this shortcut. If you insist on waiting, you’ll wait forever.”
“This is merely an excuse. Those with a lot of hair don’t mean they have partners. The real problem is when you don’t have enough money.”
“Baldness isn’t a problem, the problem is if you don’t have a proper job.”
“Honestly, as long as you’re rich, you can make it.”
“Dating costs more than curing your baldness.”
Gentlemen, do you go to who you want regardless of your flaws? Ladies, do you mind a little bit of baldness in your partner?
