M’sian Singer Slammed for Being ‘Disrespectful’ by Wearing Kebaya with a Corset, Here’s Her Response

Malaysian singer Aisha Retno recently responded to criticism from a social media user regarding her fashion choices in the Jodoh Lebaran music video, specifically her decision to wear a corset over a traditional kebaya.

The issue began when a netizen posted a lengthy comment online, praising Aisha’s vocal talent while simultaneously questioning her styling. Although the individual acknowledged her abilities as a singer and songwriter, they expressed concern over what they perceived as an inappropriate modification of traditional attire.

Preserving the integrity of traditional dress

The commenter argued that traditional clothing should be preserved in its original form as a mark of respect for cultural heritage.

While they noted that experimentation might be acceptable with modern outfits, they maintained that traditional garments like the kebaya should remain untouched.

The user added that the corset styling appeared forced and overly “fashion-forward,” ultimately comparing the look to a costume rather than an authentic representation of tradition.

A signature fashion identity

Despite the criticism, Aisha chose to respond openly and calmly. In her reply, she explained that the styling in question is not a new trend, but has been a signature element of her personal fashion identity since the start of her career.

“It has been my trademark since I started in the industry,” Aisha politely responded on Threads.

She acknowledged the feedback, stating that she understood the perspective and might consider such views in the future, depending on individual fashion preferences. However, she clarified that she does not believe her approach violates any cultural norms.

“I don’t see any harm in explaining why I’m dressed like that for every occasion, but to say it looks disrespectful, perhaps you can help me understand further how my outfit is disrespectful?”

Aisha further addressed the claim that her outfit was disrespectful to cultural traditions, inviting the commenter to elaborate on their specific concerns. She emphasised that the Jodoh Lebaran music video itself draws inspiration from a blend of influences, including Portuguese elements and the traditional joget of Melaka.

Jodoh Lebaran premiered on YouTube on 6 March, garnering over 7 million views in just two days.

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