“Love yourself first” – M’sian Spends RM10k in 2 Months to Woo Crush, She Ends Up With Someone Else

After a gut-wrenching and financially-consuming experience, a Malaysian man said that he had learned the harsh truth and decided to remind other men not to pursue women in their lives.

The man, sharing anonymously, said that if you need to spend more and do more just to pursue a woman, then it’s probably not true love, even if you eventually get the person by your side.

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He added that the woman probably accepts the efforts “out of guilt” for the things that the man has done, and the amount of time and money that he had spent.

“My colleague admitted to me that she is still with her boyfriend because ‘he treats her well,’ and not out of genuine love.”

“I spent RM10,000 just for one woman”

In his confession, the man admitted that he had forked out a lot of money just for the sole purpose of going after the woman in her heart. He said that he had spent over RM10,000 in just two months to win the heart of the woman, only to learn that fate had something else for him and the woman.

“The woman ended up with someone else, who is better looking, and took only one week to win her heart.”

“I didn’t even get to hold her hands after two months,” the man expressed.

The man gave up on pursuing women, but here’s the good thing. He didn’t give up on himself.

“Hit the gym, love yourself, and women will come to you”

Taking his failure as a lesson, the man started doing whatever was necessary to improve himself. He hit the gym, built his confidence by taking care of himself.

This includes putting on fine threads, gifting himself whatever he wants, and taking care of himself.

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“A woman who wants you will come looking for you in a wedding gown.”

Following his self-improvements, the man met a suitor, who came pursuing him. The man also said one of the lessons he had learned from his past failure was that you would become attractive on your own when you stop chasing validation from others.

To the fallen brothers who had risen up, what advice do you have for other men?

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