When we were kids, remember when our parents used to tell us, “Go dating only when you’re financially stable?” We guess parents always know best.
In a recent anonymous confession submitted to a radio DJ, a man revealed that he’s thinking about putting an end to his relationship. This is because, throughout the 4 years of love, his partner has NEVER made the relationship public on social media.
“She has never posted about me on Facebook or Instagram. She even tells others that she’s single if anyone asks.”
Not only that but the man also said that his partner was upfront about how she sees the future of this relationship – don’t see a marriage at the time being.
“She even told me that I can leave if I want,” he added.
Sounds like that was his exit cue, but what’s stopping him? Expressing his thoughts further, he admitted that if he breaks up with her, he has to say goodbye to the car he has been driving.
That’s because he has been driving his girlfriend’s car all this while, and she drives another car of her own.
“I’m financially stable, and she knows it”
He made it clear that he is still financially unstable, even after 4 years in a relationship, which explains why his girlfriend’s sister looks down on him. The car is not the only “symbol” of his unstable finances but also his spending.
“We always split the bills because I still can’t afford to pay for her.”
Despite her financial status, he said that he has thoughts about buying luxury gifts for her but after reflecting on his finances, he’d ditched the thoughts. However, he also said that he’s still in this relationship simply because he loves her.
“I’m using my power of love to be with her. Whenever she needs me, I’ll be there.”
At the end of the post, he continued to reflect on what may happen if he puts an end to this relationship.
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“I won’t have a car to use, and it’s hard for me to find someone whom I don’t have to pay for.”
It seems like both parties have a good reason to leave this relationship for good, but no one is making a move. Do you think both of them still have the chance to fix things and improve, or is this a sign of a doomed relationship?
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