When you’ve moved forward from a failed relationship and are ready to mingle again, dating applications usually come in handy. A series of swiping left and right on Tinder, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel, or whatever you’re using starts to become part of your life.
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It works for a lot of people who found their partners through the apps but a Malaysian man, Azim, is not a fan of the trend. In his TikTok post @azimxdnan about the trend of using dating apps to find a partner, Azim was blunt about his thoughts.
Those who are on dating apps are losers because they are insecure
“Remove the dating apps if possible. You don’t need them in your life. They’re nonsense.”
What do we do with the absence of dating apps? According to Azim, there’s nothing wrong with looking for love but before that, one should work on improving and loving themselves, which will open the door for people with quality to enter your life.
“Let them in. Those are the people who will accept you for who you are. Don’t chase after people.”
Azim added that if things go south after meeting people from the apps, no one and nothing should be blamed but yourself for using the apps.
“Once you’re in the apps, you’ll be more insecured than before.”
What if going on the dating apps is the only option you have?
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In a conversation with WORLD OF BUZZ, Azim highlighted the importance of constantly trying new things in life.
“This is why we have to explore all new things in life that can benefit you. Datings apps are not something new or beneficial.”
However, Azim is not denying the fact that we cannot escape a routine-based life, but it’s all about your effort to learn something new.
“Go join marathon, participate in seminars or trainings, or even art classes. Along the way, we get to improve ourselves and fate will bring us to someone who matches with the changes in ourselves,” Azim explained to WORLD OF BUZZ.
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Congratulations to the lovebirds who managed to find the one on dating apps. To those who have been trying and trying only to be disappointed by people who don’t share the same wavelength, what do you think of Azim’s take on this?
Is it time for you to remove the apps and work on yourself while fate works its magic to bring you the one you deserve?
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