Is it true that you should avoid being in a romantic relationship when you’re not financially stable, especially for the men?
It’s not really about paying for the meals for the ladies but it’s more a question about how and what can you provide for your partner, given your financial circumstances. In a Facebook post from the dating website 寻友馆Meet & Match – 全马脱单平台 recently, the requests of a man who is looking for a partner have gone viral. Was he asking too much? You be the judge.
The man is looking for a woman who is nice to him, but that’s not all. Let’s just say, it involves A LOT of money.
“I’m looking for a woman who can pay my debts, and buy a car and a house together.”
Many of us still have debts but to ask help from a partner, or in this case, your potential partner is a red flag to many women out there. In a voice note shared in the post, the man also said that he expects the woman to be loyal to him and can help him in his tough times.
“I will repay her good deeds and return her the money when I am financially stable.”
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The admin of the page itself was also baffled by what the man was looking for in a relationship, asking,
“Are you looking for a partner, or merely someone to clear your debts?”
“In your dreams, everything is possible”
Netizens, at the same time, were also shocked and speechless to see such requests from the anonymous man, and many saw it as a walking red flag.
“I don’t think I have the guts to look for a BF after this.”
“What’s his problem? And since when has this dating site become a wish-fulfillment site?”
“Poor admin who had to deal with this. Please don’t approve him!”
“The longer we live, the higher the chances of meeting this man.”
“He should’ve reached out to a sugar mummy dating website.”
“Tell him to sleep early. In his dreams, anything is possible.”
Ladies, are you willing to help a man in need and wait for him to be financially stable? Or do you see this as a dealbreaker?
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