fbpx
Connect with us

Social Stories

M’sian Woman in Distress Over Clingy Mum-in-Law, Netizens Believe Her Husband is a “Mummy’s Boy”

Published

My Post 1 2024 07 24T110146.199
Source: 123RF & 123RF

Follow us on Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, and Instagram for the latest stories and updates daily.

People often say that when you get married, you’re also marrying your partner’s family.

With that being said, does this also mean that your partner’s family must always be involved in your new life with your partner?

A Malaysian woman recently took to the XUAN Play Facebook page to anonymously share how her mother-in-law has become so clingy that she can barely have private time with her husband and children.

Boundaries 6

This image is for illustration purposes only.

She wrote, “I have a mother-in-law who doesn’t know how to behave! We have been married for 10 years and have 4 children. We live with my parents-in-law. My husband is the head of the family and takes his family abroad annually, including his brothers and their children, workers and nannies.”

“In short, every time we go abroad, there is a large group of people.”

 

She ultimately wants to have some time away from her husband’s family, but it appears that her mother-in-law refuses to let that happen.

“Because my mother-in-law will become jealous and unhappy, we have never had a couple’s trip. There were a few times when my husband and I went back to my parents’ home during the New Year, my mother-in-law would insist on going with us,”

Boundaries 5

This image is for illustration purposes only.

“I feel like there is no space for us, no privacy, and my mother-in-law wants to go wherever we go. In the past 10 years, we have never taken our children abroad by ourselves. Every time we travel, we travel with a large group of people and my husband pays for the expenses,” she explained.

At one point, her husband agreed to take her on a family trip with just their children, but her mother-in-law still managed to weasel her way into the plans.

“My mother-in-law told my husband (after learning about our trip) that she would pay for it and invited a few relatives to go along. I know that if I object to this, it will only embarrass my husband. I just want to go on our family trip. Why is this a problem? Have I not already been generous enough?” she added.

 

Many have since shared their beliefs that the husband should learn how to draw boundaries with his mother. 

Boundaries 1

“You need to have a good talk with your husband to see if he is also a problem. There must be something wrong with your mother-in-law.”

Boundaries 2

“Your husband doesn’t know how to behave.”

Boundaries 3

“Don’t you think that your husband is the problem?”

Boundaries 4

“Your husband is the problem, is he a mummy’s boy?”

 

How would you deal with an overly clingy parent-in-law?

Do feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section.

 

Also read: M’sian Gets Anti-Vaxxer Husband & Mother-in-Law Arrested for Refusing Medical Help for Her 6mo Baby

My Post 1 2024 07 01T121137.253

Source: 123RF
Source: 123RF
Source: Facebook
Source: Facebook
Source: Facebook
Source: Facebook

Follow us on Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, and Instagram for the latest stories and updates daily.



Just In

Collage 89 Collage 89
News9 hours ago

Johor Government May Implement a 4.5-Day Workweek in the Near Future

A 4-day workweek sounds ideal, but a 4-and-a-half day workweek doesn’t sound bad either. Johoreans may be in luck next...

My Post 1 2024 11 21T160023.537 My Post 1 2024 11 21T160023.537
News11 hours ago

“UPSR get D, SPM can get A” – PMX Responds to BERSIH Giving Him a Grade D in ‘Report Card’

Prime Minister Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim has opened up about BERSIH’s ‘report card‘ on his administration’s performance in conjunction with...

My Post 1 2024 11 21T114442.032 1 My Post 1 2024 11 21T114442.032 1
News15 hours ago

PDRM is Offering 60% Off Selected Traffic Summons at Govt’s 2nd Anniversary Event This Weekend!

In conjunction with the MADANI government’s 2nd anniversary on 24 November (Sunday), the Ministry of Home Affairs of Malaysia (KDN)...

Collage 17 1 Collage 17 1
News1 day ago

MCPF Calls for Vape Ban, Warns Addiction to Substances Can Lead to Unhealthy Behaviours Like Theft

The Malaysian Crime Prevention Foundation (MCPF) is urging for the sale of e-cigarettes or vape devices to be banned or...

Feat Image Lesen Feat Image Lesen
News1 day ago

Anthony Loke: Road Users in M’sia May Have to Pay for Physical Driving License Cards Starting Next Year

Transport Minister Anthony Loke Siew Fook today iterated that the Government will continue with the implementation of digital driving licenses...

Collage 15 2 Collage 15 2
News1 day ago

Filipino Couple Caught Living & Working Illegally in Malaysia Using Fake MyKads That Cost RM250 Each

A Filipino husband and wife were arrested during a raid on November 19 at a house in Pandan Indah yesterday...

Feat Image Apple Ind Feat Image Apple Ind
News1 day ago

Apple Offers to Increase Investment in Indonesia Tenfold to RM446 Million to Lift Country’s iPhone 16 Series Ban

Previously, we shared how the Apple iPhone 16 Series is banned from being sold in Indonesia until the tech giant...

My Post 1 2024 11 20T144359.263 My Post 1 2024 11 20T144359.263
News1 day ago

BERSIH Names Ismail Sabri the Best PM Since 2009, Calls Out PMX for Lack of Urgency with Reforms

In conjunction with the upcoming 2nd anniversary (24 November) of Anwar Ibrahim’s administration, The Coalition for Clean and Fair Elections,...

Announcement

Latest Videos



TRENDING TODAY