Among the things that can end a marriage is when one of the spouses chooses money over love and family.
A Malaysian woman is now in a dilemma after her husband had revealed to her that he only married her for her income, as she makes 3 times more than him.
Taking to the XUAN Play Facebook page, she anonymously confessed her grievances over her husband’s reason to marrying her.
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She wrote, “I didn’t expect that the husband I love didn’t choose me because he loved me, but because he saw my ability to make money.”
His lack of love for her was evident, not just by his words but also his actions
She had endured complications following the birth of one of their children, but he couldn’t care less to be by her side during that difficult time.
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“When I gave birth to a child for him and was in danger of bleeding out on the operating table, he was not by my side. When I was pushed out of the delivery room, I saw other people’s husbands waiting outside the delivery room, but my husband was sleeping at home.”
“Now, every time we quarrel, he admits that he chose me because my income is 3 times of his, I can make money and we can raise children together. If I am a full-time mother and can’t make money, he said he doesn’t want me. He wants me to work and make money, and take care of the children and family,” she said.
The woman added that her husband only plays video games when he comes home from work, and ignores her and their children.
She revealed that he had behaved differently with her, prior to their marriage. But now, she sees his true colours.
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“I didn’t expect that his attitude now would be completely different from when we had first gotten together, and his true colours has been revealed. I don’t mind if he’s poor and I am willing to suffer with him, but that doesn’t mean that I deserve to suffer. I didn’t expect that he was so calculating with me.”
“My income is enough to support myself and my children. He said that, if one day I lose my ability to make money and the children and I need to rely on him for support, he will choose to abandon us. Now, I see him clearly. This man is really practical and calculating.”
We genuinely hope that the woman leaves her deadbeat husband and finds strength in loving herself and her children.
