An anonymous sharing by a disgruntled Malaysian went viral on social media recently, in which she shared her grievances about her husband always being lethargic and sick despite his young age.
Shared to the @twtsecretsmy X account which reposted the anonymous message, the woman bemoaned her “weak ass” husband who she says is always “the sickest and the most tired” and despite only being in his mid-20s, he’s always having back pains.
The woman added,
“I’m stressed you know, I take care of our child full-time, I wake up late at night to change diapers and give milk, I put our child to sleep when cranky. I take care of both but who takes care of me?”
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She then advised other women out there to find a husband who is fit, asserting,
“It’s exhausting when you have a partner who’s not physically fit because, at the end of the day, you have to do everything yourself.”
The anonymous sharing resonated with Malaysians online and as of the time of writing, the X post garnered over 4,000 likes and 1,200 reposts.
In the replies to the X post, commenters shared their perspective on the situation and gave their two cents. One commenter said that she understands the woman’s feelings and alluded to having met individuals such as the woman’s husband who like to complain and always need others to help them to do something simple.
Meanwhile, another commenter shared how her husband is always helping with their children despite suffering from a slipped disc.
Besides that, one netizen claimed that most men who acted like the husband in the post are actually just lazy and a crybaby rather than not being physically fit.
So, what do you guys think of the anonymous sharing? Share your thoughts with us in the comments.
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