Cheating in a marriage has been an ongoing issue, especially in Malaysia, and we can all agree that it’s not the best feeling in the world. But would you feel less hurt if your partner cheats on you with someone of the same gender?
In a recent confession shared by @twtsecretsmy, an anonymous man shared his peculiar experience of confronting his wife after finding out that she had been cheating on him with another woman.
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“At least she’s not a tomboy”
The man went on to explain how he discovered his wife’s affair and her current relationship with another woman. He described confronting his wife and expressed feeling numb during the confrontation.
He even mentioned that upon seeing a picture of his wife’s girlfriend, he found himself thinking and even commented on how pretty the girlfriend looked.
“My wife has a girlfriend. She cheated on me, but this isn’t about her. When I confronted her, I didn’t feel a thing. I wasn’t angry, jealous, or even upset.”
Their bedroom remains alive despite the fact that the wife is cheating
The man revealed that after the confrontation, they both continued their daily routine as if nothing had happened. He then expressed how he still loves her and believes that his wife feels the same way about him.
“We still play, talk, flirt, and cuddle. Our bedroom’s not dead, we’re still passionate.”
He then wondered if he was just feeling emotionally numb or if there was something wrong with him that made it hard to deal with his wife’s affair.
“I’m way more bothered by my lack of emotions than the fact that my wife is sleeping with another woman.”
Does the “it’s not you, it’s me” line apply to this situation? What’s your take on this? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
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