M’sian Says His GF is Too Traditional & He’s Tempted to Cheat With Her BFF Who is More Open-Minded

When a relationship has progressed for too long, it’s common to feel dull at times. However, love and trust keep the relationship alive, and despite the inevitable dullness, it’s never a reason to cheat.

In an anonymous confession shared by the Facebook page MY (Malaysia), a Malaysian man, who has been in a relationship with his partner for 5 years admitted to the desire to cheat. Does he already have a chosen one? He has, and the person is none other than his girlfriend’s best friend, whom he has fallen in love with.

“We have never slept together throughout these years”

The man said his partner is too traditional, while her best friend is more open-minded. The man said it’s hard to resist the urge to cheat, and things are not made easier when his partner’s BFF constantly seduces him.

“We went on a trip together last year with a bunch of friends, including my girlfriend and her BFF. She secretly touched my body and I was so shy,” he said.

The man, who is 27 this year said that his current relationship is the only one he has ever committed to.

“But she’s too old school, and her BFF has been seducing me these past few months. I know it’s wrong, but I’m still tempted to ‘try’. What should I do?”

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“Appreciate your girlfriend, bro”

Netizens have mostly reminded the man to appreciate his partner as it’s rare to find someone traditional nowadays.

Some also blamed him for being a pervert.

“Appreciate your girlfriend, you both have been together for so long. Don’t cheat just because you want to try something new and different. This attempt will cost you a lot, there might be no return from it.”

“Learn to appreciate and communicate. You have such a good girlfriend. But you’ve done things with her BFF that I can’t help but say you’re a jerk.”

“You’re emotionally and spiritually cheating, regardless. In other words, you’re just a pervert. Being traditional in a relationship is not meant for you.”

“If the same thing happens to you, how would you handle it? Solve yourself when you have the answer. There’s no right and wrong but mutual respect and trust.”

“The urge to try the forbidden fruit. You can try but bear the consequences yourself.”

Even if there has been nothing physical that happened between the man and the third party, we have to agree that he’s borderline cheating, emotionally. How will you handle if you find yourself trapped in this kind of situation?

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